To love a black man the first thing u need to understand...
There is no easy way to love a black man

You gotta figure him out learn what he's about and know that he is someone u cant live without.

Then kill him with kindness, shower him with sweetness but never let him mistake your kindness for your weakness

Its hard for him to give himself to you so be appreciative of all the little things he tries to do

Let him know he can confide in you and in return he wont have to hide things from you

So be supportive be his friend not his foe, when he makes a mistake dont say I told u so

Be understanding not demanding, let him unwind... he faces a world of rain so b his sunshine,

Dont get too cosy in the comfort zone, you'll take him for granted and end up alone

Keep love exciting and new, go the extra mile, keep finding new ways to make him Smile

Remember to be sexy because without a doubt he wants to be proud when he takes u out

Dont let yourself go dont forget about u, love yourself and he will too,

Dont smother the man let him breath, the tighter u hold on the faster he'll leave and when you love him, love him all the way down.. Dont be afraid to explore him pound for pound

If you dont give him what he needs to feel, I guarantee that someone else will

Be honest be patient and, demand respect and a wonderful black man is what you get,

Show him your pride, stand by his side, let your heart be your guide and love will Abide...

The only competition is your fear of the past......